Mother Forces 14-year-old Adopted Daughter to Become Surrogate

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“Wicked” is how a judge described an American woman living in Britain, who enlisted her 14-year-old adopted daughter as her surrogate, so she could have a fourth child.

The unnamed woman and her husband adopted two children from overseas and later after the coupled divorced, she adopted a third child.

She then wished to adopt a fourth child, but her application to an international adoption agency was rejected leading her to initiate Plan B, which was a scheme to impregnate her 14-year-old adopted daughter in order that she might have the fourth child she longed for.

The young girl was surprised at the mother’s request but was grateful that she had been adopted and believed that her mother would “love her more” if she acceded to her request.

With sperm purchased by her mother from Cryos international in Denmark, the 14-year-old began injecting herself, with no immediate success and one miscarriage. Finally, at the age of 17 the young girl became pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy at a local hospital.

It was there that midwives noticed that the new mother’s mother was unusually rude and demanding  with her daughter, at one point telling her that she could not breastfeed the child as she did not want any “bonding” to occur.

Overhearing this statement, the hospital contacted child protection authorities who interviewed the new mom and removed her, her baby and her siblings from her mother’s home.

The investigation also revealed that the British woman had administered douches containing vinegar and either lemon or lime juice to her daughter, because she believed this would ensure that the new baby was a girl.

The woman had isolated the children, home-schooling them and disallowing her former husband from having contact with them. Apparently, the authorities had been alerted to the unusual circumstances, but on four separate occasions determined there were no child protection issues.

In his judgment, Judge Peter Jackson described the mother as having “an exceptionally forceful personality,” and expressed “an abiding sense of disbelief that a parent could behave in such a wicked and selfish way towards a vulnerable child.”

The woman was sentenced to a five-year prison term.

After the case became public, questions were raised about the ease in which the woman was able to purchase sperm, a matter that was also noted by the judge who said, “there [are] no effective checks on a person’s ability to obtain sperm from Cryos.”

Lawdiva aka Georgialee Lang

3 thoughts on “Mother Forces 14-year-old Adopted Daughter to Become Surrogate

  1. The facts of the offences are obvious, but the deeper social attitudes that they reflect, is very disturbing. The motivations to acquire yet another child, and the manipulative control of the over families domestic situation including the former husband, is of great concern to us all. For we can reason that such crimes are happening in our own neighborhoods. The actions reflect enslaving others to feed one’s desire power and control over the vulnerable. In some situations, it is extreme bullying and in other contexts, it is slavery. These offenses are not private matters that are far and away. The behaviour of the offending woman is not a “one-off”, but arises from a cultural context where social control of vulnerable dependents such as female children and domestic employees, is socially acceptable. What can cultural leaders learn from this case, in order to respond with preventive education and more vigorous reporting? The story also highlights that fortunately, there were vigilant health-workers who intervened. Do we have such local awareness and the courage to defend the vulnerable?

  2. “The unnamed woman and her husband adopted two children from overseas and later after the coupled divorced, she adopted a third child” She was deemed suitable to adopt but obviously hid her true dominance and real desires.

    It was all about her.

    “The young girl was surprised at the mother’s request but was grateful that she had been adopted and believed that her mother would “love her more” if she acceded to her request.”

    That is really sad!

    There are not enough checks made on adopters, before during and especially after adoption.

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