In 2007 Newsweek magazine reported that Rabbi Marc Schneier was one of the top 50 Jews in America, renowned for founding the Hampton Synagogue in tony West Hampton Beach and the New York Synagogue in Manhattan.
A media darling and interfaith leader,he was also the Vice-President of the World Jewish Congress and President of the North American Board of Rabbis. As a star in the Jewish firmament, he had one major problem. He couldn’t stay married.
His first marriage took place in 1981 while he was studying at Yeshiva University, a union that ended after less than one year. He married again to Esther Melamed, but divorced her in 1992. It was during this marriage that he initiated the upscale Hampton Synagogue, catering to the well-heeled Jewish community of the Hamptons, including celebrities like Steven Spielberg and Revlon’s Ron Perelman.
In 1993 he wed Oregonian Toby Gotesman at Gracie Mansion in New York, a coupling that produced a son, Brendan. But again it fell apart after Ms. Gotesman learned in 2005 that her husband was cheating on her with divorced fashion designer Tobi Rubinstein.
By now Rabbi Schneier was a wealthy man, earning a salary of $800,000 a year, with a posh $3 million residence in Westhampton Beach, and eager to embark on his pending nuptials to Ms. Rubinstein. The rabbi was 50-years-old and to commemorate his 50th birthday and his 4th wedding, his new wife gifted him a 400 lb. endangered Asian lion to be housed at the Jerusalem Biblical Zoo.
But Ms. Rubinstein was not as naive as his former brides. She hired a private investigator to look into her husband’s activities and discovered that on a so-called business trip to Israel he was accompanied by synagogue member, Ginny Leiner. A divorce followed in 2010.
In 2013 Rabbi Schneier married Ms. Leiner, who was wife number five. She gave birth to a baby girl, just before another infidelity ended that marriage in 2015.
At this point, the rabbi’s congregation could take no more. In a concerted effort to force him to leave, they withheld their payments and pledges, money that was required to carry on church life. He resigned in April of 2016, but his randy ways continue. He is said to be squiring a 30-something Israeli blonde around New York social circles these days. He is 57.
With another wedding in the offing, it is apparent the Torah means nothing to the rabbi, for in Malachi 2:16 it is written:
“For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with wrong,” says the Lord of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”
Lawdiva aka Georgialee Lang